by Randy Tudy
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This afternoon I attended a graduation party of the eldest
daughter of my childhood friend, Anelyn. Actually, all her sisters and brother
were my childhood friends because were were neighbors. When their family transferred residence we
never saw it each other again for may be 30 years already. I recently had contact with Anelyn through
Facebook. She and her family lived in
Davao City, around 5 hours of travel from our hometown, Mapawa, Maragusan, Comval
Province.
The celebration was festive. The room was filled
with family members, relatives and friends. Moreover, the
celebration became more meaningful because the center of the celebration,
Queenie, graduated as a Cum Laude at Ateneo de Davao University, one of the prestigious
schools in the Philippines.
I came to the celebration upon the invitation Analyn
and learning of her mother’s attendance.
I also wanted to see my childhood friends. Erlinda, the mother , was a former teacher in
our barrio’s only elementary school.
Although I was not under her I knew their family.
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What I could remember most was how Maam Erlinda struggled
to meet the needs of the family because she raised them alone. It was may be
one big reason why they have transferred residence to look for better pasture.
To make the long story short, Maam Erlinda went to
Canada and last Monday came home for the big celebration.
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The moment I saw her I immediately recognized. I was surprised. She seemed not getting older. Her face was glowing and really showed
happiness and contentment. Then I met my
childhood friends with their children.
They were a still a happy family. They remained simple. But I could see that
Maam Erlinda was happier. She is a very successful
mother. I saw it in her eyes. Her happiness was contagious which led me to
reflect on the goodness of God to her and the whole family.
Indeed, God rewards people who are committed to make
their dreams come true. He blesses those
who trust in Him. He never loses sight those who struggle but find ways to
maximize His blessings.
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I even imagine myself in the person of Ma'am
Erlina. I look forward to the day when I
just look back and smile at the struggles I went through but most importantly enjoy
on the blessings of God.
Reflecting on the life of Ma'am Erlinda I learn about patience. Raising her children alone was not a
joke. She did everything she could and I’m
sure there were so many down moments in her life.
I learn about perseverance. She never quit. Her children were her inspiration. Going to Canada, she said, was a blessing
because she was able to extend help to her children.
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I learn about love of God. Just seeing her happy and watching her
children and grandchildren gathered together, I believe she is blessed.
This week is graduation week in the
Philippines. This is one of the happiest
weeks for parents whose children are graduating. Graduation is a testament of God’s
unconditional love for His people. The
diploma symbolizes His grace and blessings.
Friends, whatever situation you are in now, whatever
struggles you are encountering now, be strong.
In the end, you will just look back and smile. Your reward is ready because you have a
compassionate, caring, loving and compassionate God.